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Your 7-year-old now
What's the best way to react when your child announces she wants to quit ongoing lessons or a team? This is a common reaction for young kids who have spent some time in a discipline like piano or dance; a group such as a choir, Brownies, or Cub scouts; or a sport.
Kids have different reasons for wanting to stop. They may simply not like what they're doing. It might be too difficult. It may take too much time away from playing. They may have a conflict with the instructor or another student or teammate.
Look at your child's overall schedule. If she's involved in something every day after school, this "second shift" of being on good behavior and told what to do may simply be too much.
Rest assured you're not rearing a quitter if you give in. Under age 8 or 9, children don't really have a sense of what they'll like until they try it out. Some parents make kids wait until the end of a session or season, while others let it drop rather than force an unwilling participant.
Either scenario is okay. Consider getting the input of the instructor or leader. Try to evaluate whether your child wants to quit impulsively, because of a minor glitch like an argument with a friend, or whether the desire runs deeper.
Your life now
You may have your child take a multivitamin every morning, but do you take one? Many women are lacking in certain nutrients, notably folate, calcium, and iron. So often, we monitor our nutrition and swallow vitamins during pregnancy, only to let the habit lapse as the subsequent years roll by.
If energy is an issue, or you just want to be sure you're at the top of your game, have a physical exam that includes a blood workup. You only need this every few years, but if you haven't had one for a while, you may be due.
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